Many women enter in a relationship without planning or negotiating what they want the relationship to look like. You negotiate the terms of a job why not a relationship? At the some point in your life whether it is early on or after many relationships most, if not all women have an idea of the type of person they want to date yet most women let go of these wants for a compromise only to be unhappy.
Let’s take Sandy who has been cheated on already twice who said the next guy she meets if he cheats on her she is out of the relationship yet when it happens she decides again to give this person a chance. Why would you compromise with yourself in this manner? You know the outcome from past relationships and it has never turned out well yet you continue down that same road.